Is This the Most Terrifying TV Drama of Our Times?
Is This the Wake-Up Call Parents Have Been Waiting For? ‘Adolescence’ the harrowing, thought provoking drama that will horrify parents. If you have children of a certain age, on the precipice of getting their own phones, this will be particularly hard to watch & maybe your final wake up call to delay giving your child a smartphone, hold off on social media, and insist on staying actively involved in their online world as well as starting those crucial and vitally important conversations early – guiding them every step of the way. Adolescence is a harrowing and essential piece of drama that every parent, teacher, policymaker, and community member should watch. Jack Thorne and Stephen Graham have crafted a story that doesn’t just unfold — it confronts. The dazzling performances draw you in, but it’s the devastating questions the drama raises that stay with you long after the credits have finished. It sheds light on the dark realities of incel culture, misogyny, and the online influences shaping young boys, making it a powerful catalyst for urgent conversations about violence, vulnerability, and the role society plays in guiding its youth. Drama like this opens up much-needed conversations about knife crime, toxic masculinity, and the role the internet plays in shaping young minds. After watching Adolescence, perhaps we all need to take meaningful steps to address these complex issues within our own family. I always feel compelled to be practical so here are some practical actions you can take: 1. Start Open Conversations 2. Educate Yourself and Your Teens 3. Monitor and Guide Online Activity 4. Model Healthy Relationships 5. Encourage Critical Thinking 6. Build Coping Strategies and Resilience 7. Know the Warning Signs 8. Foster a Culture of Compassion Here are some conversation scripts that might help you start those important much needed conversations ‘’What did you think?” Parent: “That was pretty intense. I’m still processing it. What did you think about the story?” Teen: (Responds) Parent: “Yeah, I felt the same. It made me wonder how someone could get pulled into that kind of thinking. Do you think that happens a lot with people your age? 2. “Have you seen this online?” Parent: “The stuff about online groups really got me thinking. Have you ever seen anything like that — people saying extreme things or blaming women for their problems?” Teen: (Responds) Parent: “It’s kind of scary how easy it is to stumble across that. Do you think most people recognise it for what it is, or does it slowly influence them?” 3. “Why do you think that happened?” Parent: “I keep thinking about Jamie and what led him down that path. Do you think things could have turned out differently if someone had reached out sooner?” Teen: (Responds) Parent: “It makes me wonder if some kids feel like they don’t have anyone to talk to when they’re struggling. What do you think schools or families could do differently?” 4. “What would you do?” Parent: “If you ever noticed a friend getting caught up in that kind of stuff — like becoming angry, isolated, or talking about extreme ideas — what do you think you’d do?” Teen: (Responds) Parent: “I know those situations can be tough to handle alone. You know you can always talk to me, right? I’d never judge, just listen.” 5. “How does it feel being a teenager today?” Parent: “Watching that made me realise things might be different for teens now than when I was younger. Do you feel like there’s a lot of pressure to fit in or act a certain way online?” Teen: (Responds) Parent: “I imagine it’s hard to know what’s real when everyone is posting their ‘perfect’ life. How do you handle that pressure?” 6. “Let’s talk about what’s out there.” Parent: “You know, the internet can be amazing, but it also has some dark corners. Do you feel like you can spot when something is trying to manipulate or influence you?” Teen: (Responds) Parent: “It’s not always obvious, is it? If you ever come across anything that feels off — weird messages, extreme ideas, or even people pushing certain beliefs — you can always talk to me about it.” 7. “What do you wish adults understood?” Parent: “One thing that hit me is how much adults don’t always see what’s really going on with teens. If there was one thing you wish adults understood better about being your age, what would it be?” Teen: (Responds) Parent: “That makes sense. I want to understand, so if you ever feel like I’m missing something, just tell me. I’m here to listen.” Adolescence is more than just a drama — it’s a wake-up call. It holds up a mirror to the dark corners of the internet and the quiet struggles young people face, reminding us that these issues aren’t happening in some distant place — they’re unfolding in our homes, schools, and communities. As parents, teachers, and mentors, we have a responsibility to step in, start the difficult conversations, and be the steady presence our teens need. The digital world is vast, and without guidance, it can become a breeding ground for anger, isolation, and dangerous ideologies. But connection is the antidote. When we listen without judgment, model empathy, and create safe spaces for open dialogue, we empower our young people to navigate these challenges with resilience and compassion. No family is immune, and no conversation is too small. The most powerful thing we can do is show up — again and again — ready to listen, to learn, and to walk alongside our children as they grow. Adolescence is set to be a cultural touchpoint for young masculinity for years to come. What an astonishing thing these writers and actors have made. The arrival of this drama is a moment that demands attention. It has the potential to achieve the same cultural impact as Mr Bates vs the Post Office, the ITV drama that brought a national scandal to light and pushed it to
