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In today’s hyper-connected world, your child’s smartphone is more than a device—it’s a portal to vast networks of social interaction, gaming, and entertainment. While platforms like Snapchat, TikTok, and Discord offer creativity and community, they also harbour potential dangers that every parent needs to understand.
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It’s crucial to understand the platforms your children use and the risks associated with them. Open dialogue about online interactions is the first step to ensuring their safety.
Key Tips for Parents:
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Navigating this digital jungle can feel overwhelming, but you’re not alone. I’ve created a parental guide and script specifically tailored to help you address these challenges with your child. This resource offers practical advice, conversation starters, and actionable steps to protect your child on Snapchat, TikTok, Discord, and beyond.
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Together, we can ensure our children are not just entertained online but safe and empowered.
Let’s work towards a digital future where families can thrive without fear.
Here are tailored scripts for parents to address online dangers with children of different ages, focusing on Snapchat, TikTok, and Discord.
These scripts are designed to open dialogue, educate, and set boundaries effectively.
Goal: Teach basic online safety and establish trust.
Parent:“You know how we talk about being careful around strangers in real life? The same thing applies online. Apps are fun, but sometimes people we don’t know might try to talk to us there. It’s important to only chat with friends we know in real life. If someone you don’t know sends you a message, what do you think you should do?”
Child:“Tell you?”
Parent:“That’s right! You can always come to me, and we’ll figure it out together. Remember, no one should ever ask you for personal information, like your name, address, or school. Let’s go through your apps together now so we can make sure they’re safe.”
Goal: Emphasise the importance of privacy and recognise risky behaviour.
Parent:“I know you love using [insert app your child uses], and I get why it’s fun! But did you know that apps like Snapchat and Discord have features that can let strangers message you or even see where you are? It’s important to think about who you’re talking to online. Do you know all your online friends in real life?”
Child:“Most of them.”
Parent:“Okay, that’s good to know. Here’s the thing—sometimes people pretend to be someone they’re not. It’s not your fault if it happens, but it’s why I want to make sure you’re careful. How about we set up privacy settings / safety settings together? We can also come up with a rule: you don’t accept new friend requests without checking with me first. Does that sound fair?”
Goal: Foster independence while maintaining safety and trust.
Parent:“I know you’re old enough to manage a lot of what you do online, but I also know that platforms like TikTok, Snapchat, and Discord can sometimes be risky. There are people out there who use these apps to trick others into sharing things they shouldn’t. Have you ever had a message or comment that made you uncomfortable?”
Teen:“Maybe once or twice.”
Parent:“I appreciate you telling me. You’re clever, and I trust you to make good decisions, but no one should pressure you into sharing anything personal or private. If you ever feel unsure about something, just let me know. We can handle it together. Let’s also talk about some red flags to watch for—like people asking for photos or private information. Does that make sense?”
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Parent:“I’ve been learning more about how apps like Snapchat, TikTok, and Discord work, and I think it’s important for us to create some family rules around them. It’s not about taking away your fun but making sure everyone feels safe. How about we agree to these three things:
Does that sound reasonable? Do you have any questions or ideas to add?”
Child/Teen:(Encourage discussion and mutual agreement.)
These scripts provide a foundation for discussing online safety in an age-appropriate way, ensuring your child feels informed and supported.
